Guy Any Time Your Girlfriend Ask You For Money Think About This 6 Things Or Get Ready To Go Village
That depends on your plans for your relationship with her. There are only two possible modes when a girl interacts with a guy: 1, she can be his toy or
2 she can be his treasure.
You've all seen a little boy play with a truck. He pushes it this way and that, then, when he gets tired of it, he throws it away and grabs another toy.
It is very hard on girls when boys get tired of them and throw them away. If that's your goal, giving her money would be a waste since you're going to ditch her anyway, but you'd define yourself as a dishono`rable cad.
If, on the other hand, you're thinking that she might be precisely the treasure to whom you want to dedicate your life, it could be that she's thinking the same thing.
Dating is extremely simple:
You either date to give, or you date to get. This one-sentence foundation of date is also the basis of the Christian walk:
Beloved, if God so loved us, we ought also to love one another. I John 4:11
Look not every man on his own things, but every man also on the things of others. Philippians 2:4
For whosoever will save his life shall lose it: and whosoever will lose his life for my sake shall find it. Matthew 16:25
Trying to save your individuality after you’re married costs you the happiness God intended for you; losing yourself in marriage blesses both you and your spouse.
For many generations, the only way a woman could survive was to have a man feed her. Thus, many women want to know if a man will care for her materially.
The basic duties of marriage are very simple:
I will therefore that the younger women marry, bear children, guide the house, give none occasion to the adversary to speak reproachfully. I Timothy 5:14
But if any provide not for his own, and specially for those of his own house, he hath denied the faith, and is worse than an infidel. I Timothy 5:8
You pay the bills; she guides the house under your leadership. What could be simpler?
Conflicts may arise in working out the details, this post gives a formula for minimizing conf`lict in a marriage. It has a section on arguments about money.
If you're both thinking in the long term, it would be completely appropriate for you to give her money - you'll spend most of your married life doing that anyway.
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